Love... the greatest contradictory

Love, for me... will always be the greatest contradictory... yet it will also be the most in-line emotion.

Love can be the greatest mystery, yet also be the answer. A feeling of complexity and uncertainty... yet can also be simplicity and certainty.

It can cause countries and religions to go to war... yet it can also be the reason for peace. It can cause chaos as much as it can bring proaperity.

It's a double edged sword that can hurt both ways... or a one that can be used for justice. It can make you drunk as hell, yet can also make you feel just a little bit warm on the cheeks.

It can cause pain as much as it can take pain away. It can kill, but it can also make a person feel alive. Love is but a feeling for some... while other use it as a tool.

Love can deceive as much as it can bring the truth out. It can be a drug that cure, or a drug that brings forth addiction. Love can make a person go insane, yet it may also be a reason for sanity.

It is a feeling that brings forth jealousy and insecurity... yet it can also make one feel secure and confident. A weird feeling for some, while other fins it to be normal.

It is the greatest can overcome even the greatest minds... yet it can also be subjected to the mind's control. Some long for it while others avoid it. Some naturally have it while others just don't.

Love can play games with your mind, yet it can also be reality. Love can be cruel, but it can also be so kind. Some people hide from it while other seek it. Some are caught aware... while others end up in limbo without knowing why.

I guess the best, or worst, way to explain it is this way... or maybe not.

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To be a businessman, or to just work for someone else...

Here i will show you my idea as to the difference in the two said lifestyles and career paths

Being a businessman myself, i've always envied the life of those who simply had an 8-5 work hours... doesn't mean, however, that i do not enjoy the benefits of this life. Here's how it goes...

Being an employee certainly has its perks...

1. You get to leave your work in the office.

2. You have a steady income.

3. You have the DOLE at your side.

4. You get to have vacation leaves and truly enjoy them.

5. You get extra pay for overtime works.

6. You can worry less about the business and where you're working for.

7. You have a well-defined job, which may be clerical and routinary most of the time.

8. You have a career path to aim for or drive you to achieve a certain goal.

However, being an employee also has its own down side.

1. You have a boss

2. Your extra efforts will not always be appreciated, nor awarded.

3. Fixed income gives you no chance to make extra.

4. You have yo strictly follow the rules and regulations of the company.

5. You don't own your time.

6. You have to file for vacation leaves.

Now let's see how being a businessman fairs.

1. You have your own time

2 you don't have a boss to answer to, unless you have a dad.

3. You can go on vacation anytime.

4. Extra efforts and income would mean a wealthier you.

5. You are respected, or feared, by your employees.

However, it does not go without the following problems

1. You can't sleep well at night because you worry about your business.

2. Problems at work are brought home.

3. You worry too much about your company's well-being.

4. You don't have a choice but to work overtime with no pay if you have to.

5. Your business will always be your priority, and losing money for the business would also mean losig your own money.

6. You take the risks, and bear the consequences of your actions and decisions.

7. There is no true vacation leaves as you will always be on call 24/7.

8. You will constantly be caught thinking... and wondering... what to do next?

9. You work becones your life, and it get pretty boring.

10. Finally, people will always asume that you're doing quite well.

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What makes men who they are? Why the need to be greedy?

I've often wondered why some people are greedy, and how they got there. Dont get me wrong... im not saying i'm not greedy... i am... and i totally still couldn't understand why and how i got there.

Let me tell you a story of someone i know... and then, a story about me.

There's this one person i know who almost had everything in life... he had achieved all of his childhood dreams, proven his worth and capabilities, had more than he and his children would even need to survive and live a comfortable life, and yet he still craves for more. He had power, influence, money, and fame in his own right. A lot of people envied and admired his abilities... yet he still felt empty, and wanted more. He was drunk with power, and he was corrupted by the very sins of the world... greed has taken its toll with his health... and greed had made him heartless...

My story goes like this, i've always envied those that had more than what i have... i have a knack of losing spending like a crazy person... and yet i see myself wanting more... the greatest drive for greed is the need and want for something. It's what drives people like me to wanna work harder and get more. But more than that, i envy those that had barely any food on the table, yet had peace of mind and can even manage to laugh their hearts out everyday.

After all is said and done, id like to say, and believe that life and God ia fair. He giveth and he taketh... but the bottom line is, where you are perfect in one aspect ia where you are flawed and found wanting in another.

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You can never cheat nor fight destiny... you can believe to have delayed fate so much. - hanson original

Life is but a crazy whirlwind of possibilities. Some say that life is a wheel. Sometimes you're up... other times you're down. Some people believe that you life is in you hands while others claim that fate has already been written ling before you were born.


But i've always wondered... if fate has already been written,  then why do people even bother working? Why strive for a better life for your family's future, or even for your own? If God knows what will happen next, then how come he gave us free will? This is the greatest paradox of life.


I believe that we are given free will to be able to forge our own destinies and make our own choices. But i can't help myself, sometimes, from thinking that life has a funny way of playing with us. There are unexplainable things that you will notice along life's twists that will make you wonder... had our destinies been trully written... then how come we feel like we've made our own choices? But after those choices have been made, destiny has a funny way of showing us that we might have made the wong choice. There are things that are too far-fetched to think that it was a total coincidence.


Life is a series of trials... a myriad of choices to choose from... which path to take, what to do next, where to go from here... is there really a choice to begin with? Do we make our own destinies? Or the book has already been written, only for you to publish it.


Life has constantly proven that forecasts and predictions are often times false... but what if it was true? What if it came true? Hiuld we believe that we never really had a choice?


Whatever it is... i believe this as strongly as i can... life has written our beginnings and ends the moment we were born... but on how we get there, and the minor details along the way, make it a more colorful and interesting details. In short, we're given each a choice on how we should write our own stories...


We will always have a choice as to how we would like people to remember us. We will always have a choice as to how we should live our lives. The end may have been written, but the question is... how do we wanna get there?


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